berkawan ni sebenarnya macam bershawls.
saya bukannya reti sangat pun pakai shawls. shawls pun beberapa helai je sebab memang tak reti pakai. selalu teringin nak pakai shawls kemas-kemas cantik-cantik macam denabahrin ayesha etc. tapi nak buek cano, memang shawling skills kira out..
dulu.
sekarang alhamdulillah, dengan adanya 'dakwah wa tarbiyyah' melalui Youtube, kira in dah lah shawling skills saya alhamdulillah. gambar di atas gambar retis-retis sket untuk menambah keyakinan dan secara langsung memantapkan skill bershawl dari segi rohaniyyah wa insaniyyah.
but that is not the point tho.
I always blamed the materials, sizes and designs of shawls that I couldn't wear them properly. sometimes I blamed the shape of my face (by forgetting that we human are made ahsaani taqweem). this happened until a time that I finally figured out the most suitable way of wearing shawls, I realised that it is about the skills, not the shawls.
the same goes to friendship - friends and the way we deal with friends.
friends should never be the subject to blame, it's the way we befriend. why point fingers to our friends when we got a situation when in fact, we are friends to them ourselves? not that we are always the one to be blamed, but both of us - the way both of us deal with each other.
it takes two to clap, and also two to stretch the rubber
stretch moderately, my friend. because if one lets go, the pain depends on how far you have stretched the rubber.
ouch.
note* don't you think the biggest challenge of giving dakwah through fashion is tabarruj? its a deadly silent killer isn't it.
:)
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